A Slow Diffuse

“The vulnerable shores.  Worn from time.

I brought whatever sensibilities I could accumulate in a bubble life. And despite the walls,

even brick erodes with the relentless rain. “

Conflict defines you. If you want to know who somebody is, you want to find out what life’s combination of circumstance and opportunity has shaped somebody to be, observe how they react in conflict. Because in times of crises, whether significant or not, the convictions we standby will become apparent. It turns out that I am learning more about my own habits living abroad. A lot of it has to do with the lack of a support network. It’s also probably a natural maturation process that I seemed to have been able to avoid for a greater part of my adulthood until now. From simple organizational things that go into planning group trips to figuring out how to consistently put the needed nutrients into my face so that I can keep living. I have started to really appreciate some of the more mundane things people do because even “easy” tasks still need somebody to do them. It appears as though I have been something of a lazy and oblivious fool.

In the spirit of being more responsible and proactive I have had to neglect my beloved blog for a while. I have lived here more than a month and I believe the figurative Japanese Floaties have been removed.

-I have been introduced to a small but large enough portion of the language to ask simple questions and make some silly comments. “すごい! それはとてもかわいいおんなです”. Awesome! That is a really cute woman.

– I’m now sharing some “tricks of the trade” of adjusting to Japanese life with friends. Onigiri makes for the perfect snack, it is rice stuffed with chicken, fish, or some vegetables and wrapped in seaweed.

In a recent trip to Tokyo we went to my first Japanese Baseball game to watch the Tokyo Giants play the Tokyo Swallows at the the Tokyo Dome which is the Giants home.

Japanese Baseball

Of course the game itself is played the same. And the stadium was more or less comparable to an American one. And unfortunately the cost of beer is the same as well. But the one major difference between American and Japanese Baseball is the coordination of the crowds. First of all, it is not possible to buy tickets in the bleachers of the stadium unless you are part of the fan club. One section of the bleachers is for the visiting team’s fan club and the other section is for the home team. There is an incredibly organized pattern of cheering that goes on in the bleachers. During each half inning one of the sections of the bleachers comes alive with song, drumming, and horns. You see, each player on the team has his own song as sung by the bleacher hysterics. So during his at-bat they are singing his song. The bleacher fans of the team that is in the field are completely quiet. Waiting for their turn.

Just outside the Tokyo Dome there is an amusement park that had a roller coaster. It was really interesting to see a fairly large roller coaster in the middle of Tokyo. Unfortunately for now it is closed, but this might require a return trip.

The week that I’m writing this is known in Japan as “Golden Week”. Every year around this time there are 4 national holidays in the span of about one week;

  • Showa Day (April 29). Birthday of former Emperor Showa
  • Constitution Day (May 3). Post WWII constitution put into effect his day.
  • Greenery Day (May 4). Celebrating nature and the environment
  • Childrens Day (May 5). This day is for the boys, the girls day is in March.

 Which means much of the country is given these days off of work. I will be going to a beautiful part of Japan near Mt.Fuji called Hakone. It is famous for it’s hot springs and natural beauty. I will be travelling with 3 friends and look forward to sharing some of these pictures with everybody. 

またね

4 thoughts on “A Slow Diffuse

  1. You know Chon you really are quite good at this blog thing. Your Mom and I really look forward to your updates and check every picture and every link. I’m so glad you are having such a great time both in your travels and in your work…take care and we’ll look forward to your return.

  2. Thank you Jon! This beautiful writing of self awareness and the world of Japan sucks me in and makes it all come alive to me! Since I will never see it in person your descriptions and pix make me feel like I’m there!!! Awesome! Xxoo

  3. Great post Jon. I don’t think you give yourself enough credit………you’ve been pretty self-sufficient on most things for sometime (of course there are times I’m amazed that things turn out OK for you with some of your other organizational attempts). Conflict and change are never comfortable things (unless you’re an acid….then you’re doing what you should be doing). As a parent, I am more than proud as you have undertaken a journey I wouldn’t of had the guts to do. Jealous may be too strong of a word, but I certainly have some envy on what you’re doing now and what you probably will be doing in the future. Experience and memories are things that cannot be taken away from you. What’s exciting at this time in history is you have the capability to document your life through pictures and of course, the blogging you are doing. Although you don’t want to live in the past, there is nothing wrong with flashbacks. There will be MANY moments when you get older that you will reflect back………and smile, even laugh. And sometimes………………..cry! Crying is OK. If it didn’t happen, you’d have nothing to even cry about. Maturity comes with some parental guiding…..but life itself seems to be the real teacher. You have (and are), learning well!!! I need to know……..did you get a mini-bat at the game?

    Date: Mon, 29 Apr 2013 22:21:12 +0000 To: gjchurch13@hotmail.com

  4. Jon, Incredible posts. You’re doing so well. I’m more than proud of you. The documentations you make will keep your memories alive forever. I’ve enjoyed this moment you shared with us online. I wish you continued successes and you’ve gotten such a wonderful start. I send you love and God’s blessings. Love, G’pa

    P.S. Jon, we celebrated G’pa’s birthday today and share your post with him and G’ma. They really enjoy reading your blog. G’ma and G’pa are wishing you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY soon also!! Love you! Mom, G’ma and G’pa

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